relax guys....no need for panic.
was a few days before i got over to look at his bike and until today for the weather and time planets to align...but this is probably the easiest,cheapest and silliest problem solved yet.
when pulling the brake pedal it went in a lot...uncomfortably so yet there was for sure a pedal there, sponge present fluid correct and wheel bearing seemed ok. while doing the normal head scratching and feeling/ribbing round the "affected areas" i happened to turn the small lever adjuster which i didn't even realise was there, it turned a little a fell into place and locked.(if that makes sense) anyway i pulled out the lever and screwed the lever out....hey presto brake problem seemed solved. some "passer by" has be noseying round his bike and turned the screw for no good reason.....my thoughts anyway.
today we took the bikes out a run and he seems happy with the brakes now.
however the course of true love does not run smooth and i think his starter button failed today....it's definitely not working now as two cross bikers set upon it on the first good biking day in a long time passed us by.....grrr
that said.....brakes success!!!! thanks for the suggestions folks